A Bond that’s Bridging Generations - an Unlikely Friendship in Quirindi🌱
Scientific studies have long highlighted the profound benefits of intergenerational programs, which create meaningful connections between the elderly and the young. These benefits are vividly brought to life through the heartwarming collaboration between Quirindi Care Services (QCS) and local schools. At the heart of this collaboration lies a touching friendship between resident Jim Spradbrow and Jesse, a Quirindi High School student doing work experience at QCS.
Jim and Jesse's bond began with simple conversations and a shared love of gardening. Jesse, who chose QCS for his work experience to gain valuable skills like patience and knowledge, found himself enjoying the time spent with residents. His choice to work at QCS was driven by the unique opportunities to learn and grow in ways he felt he couldn’t find elsewhere.
“I enjoy spending time with the residents. I have also enjoyed walking and talking with the residents as well as the craft groups””
Jim, reflecting on Jesse's arrival at Eloura, expressed how his heart lifted when Jesse first visited Eloura. He found it special to have a young person willing to spend time with older people such as himself. “Having Jesse here is wonderful. He is a lovely young man and since he has been coming to Eloura he has become more open and confident,” Jim said. Jim observed that Jesse's dedication to making the residents' days better has had a noticeable impact on both the young man and the elderly residents.
Their unlikely friendship has been nurtured through a mutual love of gardening, craft, and good conversation. The joy they find in these shared moments is palpable and adds a refreshing and dynamic element to their daily lives.
Kim Riley, General Manager at QCS, highlighted the emotional rewards that come from these interactions. She noted that students like Jesse gain self-confidence and self-awareness through their engagement with residents, while the residents benefit from the fresh energy and cheerfulness of youth. “This interaction builds self-confidence and self-awareness in students and brings immense emotional rewards,” Kim said.
The intergenerational connections at QCS extend beyond individual friendships. Regular visits from Quirindi Preschool children, some of whom have relatives at Eloura, bring joy and warmth to the community. Tyson Tolmie, Head of Lifestyle at Eloura, mentioned that resident surveys showed a strong desire for engagement with children, making these visits a priority.
“Activities like bowling and gardening help build friendships, and it is touching to see the children call out to residents and run up to give them high fives. These moments of joy and connection highlight the community's commitment to fostering meaningful relationships across generations.” Tyson said.
Tyson shared his thoughts on the broader impact of these intergenerational programs, saying, “It can be repetitive to be in the company of those only in the same position as oneself. Life could easily become monotonous if these programs were not there to engage the community into the Eloura community.
“Our residents truly enjoy the interaction with these young people, and the impact they have truly cannot be overstated. It's just a joy,” he said.
Page 51 of ACCPA’s quarterly magazine, Aged Care Today features the full article on the friendship between Jim and Jesse, read it here: https://issuu.com/adbourne/docs/aged_care_today_magazine_spring-2024/19
Research supports that intergenerational programs improve physical, mental, and emotional well-being for older people while promoting empathy and social skills in children and adolescents.
Kim elaborated that these engagements has been observed to promote significant improvements in wellbeing, including increased physical activity, social engagement, and overall happiness among residents.
The charm of these intergenerational engagements lies in the interaction between those just starting out in life and those reflecting on a life well-lived. There is a unique beauty in seeing the young bring fresh energy and the elderly share their wisdom, creating a harmonious and enriching experience for both.
Looking ahead, QCS plans to expand these initiatives with a variety of engaging activities that foster even more connections between residents and younger generations. Kim emphasised their commitment to providing diverse and engaging opportunities for residents and the younger generation to connect.